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Etc, Makeup & SkincareApril 16, 2008 7:21 am

lipgloss

I’ve been religiously using lip gloss of late, mostly due to the fact that the air conditioned environment I am working in will dry up my lips very fast if I don’t take some extra care.

I used to like buying lip gloss and not using them because I find that I must apply lip gloss with mirror, as I simply can’t bear those shiny lip gloss going out of my lip line.

Another point is that makes me hate putting on lipgloss is, my long hair will get stuck to it whenever the wind blows. Aside from that my lips are quite sensitive to the ingredients of the lip balm or lip gloss, as some brands will cause irritation.

Still, I need to smack on some lip gloss right now or risk peeling, chapped lips. All the more reason to splurge on those, colourful, cute and tasty lip glosses! 

 

In The NewsApril 7, 2008 3:22 am

First, someone found out that she is prostituting herself, and the news got published all over The Star.

Then, some kaypochi from some ministry in Malaysia wanted to help her. (I wonder how, and why, as if there isn’t enough of problems back at home to handle, and its not like she is a Malaysian anyway)

Then Sufiah herself says she is into it by choice. So, people, just stop all the drama about her already. 

I have no regrets, says Sufiah

PETALING JAYA: Maths prodigy Sufiah Yusof, who is now working as a prostitute, claims she is living the life she wants without any regrets.

She does not think being an escort is sleazy and terrible and says her clients treat her like a princess in an interview with British tabloid News of the World.

“People think escorting is sleazy and terrible but I don’t see it like that,” she said in a no-holds-barred interview that was published with pictures of her in skimpy attire and sexy poses. Sufiah: ‘People think escorting is sleazy and terrible but I don’t see it like that’

Sufiah claimed that she wanted to be in control of her life.

“I hate this stereotype society has of escorts as being exploited. It is so far from the truth. My clients treat me like a princess. One guy took me shopping on Bond Street. He bought me a beautiful black Gucci dress for £300 (RM1,920) and then took me to Selfridges, where I could pick a handbag I liked.”

Sufiah chose a £600 (RM3,840) Gucci clutch and later that night, she repaid him for his generosity .

The 23-year-old Sufiah, who passed her Maths A-level when she was only 12, was enrolled at St Hilda’s College in Oxford a year later.

She was working as an administrative assistant earning £16,000 (RM102,400) a year in Manchester when, about four months ago in a bar, she was asked by an “immaculate lady in a designer suit” to become an escort.

She found the offer appealing because she was running up debts of about £3,500 (RM22,400) in rent and credit card expenses.

“I have studied so intensely for so many years, I wanted to have some fun,” said Sufiah, whose Pakistani father Farooq Yusof forced her to study day and night.

The father is now in jail for sexually assaulting two pupils.

She sent her photographs to an escort website and the agency listed her. A few days later, she was offered a client.

She admitted being quite nervous, but excited as well.

Sufiah said the first client was a “lovely man” in his late 20s, tall and handsome.

“I left that night feeling totally elated having an amazing time with £250 (RM1,600) in my purse,” said Sufiah.

She has built a base of regular clients and saw between five and 10 men each week.

“I don’t believe my education had been wasted – in fact, I usually take problem sheets with me to solve before appointments,” she said.

Sufiah claimed she could earn more than £1,000 (RM6,400) a night by having dinner and staying over with a client.

“Now, I wonder if I could go back to a normal relationship, where you watch EastEnders and have boring sex. I’ve gotten used to being treated like a princess,” she said.

If Sufiah talked glowingly about her “career,” she was not so effusive when talking about her childhood and her father.

She recalled studying maths all the time. She did not have any friends or allowed to join any activities.

“As I grew older, I began to clash with my father. He was violent at times. He pushed me so far academically, I became more confident for any girl my age. I grew up too quickly.

“Oxford was an amazing place but I was too young. By the time I was 15, I wanted to be in control of my life. I fought back,” she said.

That was the year she ran away from university.

Sufiah told the News of the World she ran away with £200 (RM1,280). She found a hostel in London for £14 (RM89.60) a night. After a week, she moved to a hostel in Bournemouth.

When she was found in an Internet cafe, Sufiah refused to go home. She was placed in foster care.

When she was 18, Sufiah returned to Oxford to resume her studies. She fell in love and married fellow student Jonathan Marshall a year later.

“At that time, I thought we would be together forever, but we married too young and grew apart,” she said.

After the divorce, she moved back to London and taught maths in the evening. Six months ago, she shifted to Manchester and became an escort.

“I still enjoy learning and I find it puts me in the right frame of mind for an intelligent conversation with my clients,” she said.

Sufiah is adamant about continuing with her “career” because “I have a nice life.”

She also does not want much to do with her parents. Describing the relationship as estranged, she said she was in contact with them occasionally but “couldn’t speculate what they will think of my new life.”

“I have never felt so confident about my body and I’ve had some of the best sex of my life,” she said.

The Star

Aside from the brains that made into Oxford in a young tender age, Sufiah’s story on how she got herself into prostitution and enjoying it at the same time is somewhat similar to those escort girls who got themselves into the trade: broken family, debts and addiction to a high class lifestyle, to name a few.

Obviously, she is enjoying what she does. With her smart brains where employment shouldn’t be a problem, she made the choice and is happy with it. 

Her confession:

Shock confession of maths prodigy who turned to life of vice

‘I love being a call girl - I’m in control,’ boasts fallen child genius 

 

 

SexApril 2, 2008 7:01 am

 

 

 
This, is one hell of a popular thread topic that will be started every months or so in most of the forums I visit, and one that receives a lot of attention without fail.

If you are so curious, just do a quick google and I bet you will find more reasons than you could actually think of. Seriously.

Let’s look at what marriage is about before arguing about whether or not should sex occur before, or after it.

Marriage or wedlock is an institution in which interpersonal relationships (usually intimate and sexual) are sanctioned with governmental, social, or religious recognition. It is often created by a contract or through civil processes. Civil marriage is the legal concept of marriage as a governmental institution.

Wikipedia

That, is marriage. To put things in another way, marriage is a ceremony, a symbol of union, a legal contract that binds a man and woman as husband and wife.

 

Seriously, when you ask whether to have sex before or after marriage, you are actually asking: Should I preserve my virginity for my future spouse?  

I bet if we couldn’t tell whether a person is a virgin or otherwise because by nature the idea does not exist, this issue wouldn’t crop up at all.

Now that it did, it is an endless debate. *facepalm*

So, before or after marriage? Or, ahem, virgin on the wedding night or otherwise? Does it even matter?

Stripping away the society perception, religious dogma and skeptical ideas, sex is an act of intimacy between two individuals. Therefore, it very much had to do with the two individuals rather than the rest of the world. So, aside from reading about some opinions there is just no need to specifically ask for permission. :)

It is undeniable that sex is fun, fulfilling and makes you feel loved, if the individuals involved knows what they are doing. Sex before marriage does not equate to sexual promiscuity, because having sex before marriage doesn’t mean that people are morally loose and tend to sleep around. That is a bad image painted by prudent people towards sex before marriage.

So as long as you both know what you are doing, and are willing to take responsibility for the consequences of your action, then there is no harm in doing it.

 

Just remember to practice safe sex.